Channeled by Jeff Fasano
THE LAWS OF BEINGNESS
Attachments and Being Alone
You are now moving into the wonderment of the self and the wonderment of aloneness. It is now time to look outside of yourself and begin to define your attachments. It is time to move within and define your attachments in your relationships, and those you have outside of you in the third dimensional realm.
It is time to see your attachments and how they affect your life, how they play a part in creating your life, and how they play a part in creating your relationships. It is important to begin to see, define and know your attachments so you can release them. The reason We ask you to define your attachments is so you can become conscious and aware of them in your life. Each of you has attachments in various aspects of your life, and in relationships.
It is important now to become honest with yourself and your partner in these exercises so you can point out these attachments.
Many of you may think you don’t have attachments but you do.
An example of an attachment is looking for outcomes in your life.
If I do this then I will get that.
What are the attachments in your relationships?
Why are you in the relationships you are in?
Could it be that you are frightened to be alone? Can you see this is an attachment?
It is time to move into aloneness and being alone with yourself.
Can you be you when you are alone?
Do you enjoy being alone?
It is important to see in your aloneness your attachments.
It is in these moments of being alone when you are not in connection with anyone else, you will begin to see your attachments in your relationships and your attachments outside of you.
The question is:
Can you be alone?
What transpires when you are alone?
Do you avoid your feelings?
Do you avoid being?
Do you avoid being in the quietness when being alone?
Are you being when you are alone?
Beingness out in the world is what We have been speaking to you about. It is now time to take a look at beingness when you are alone.
What are you doing when you are alone?
Are you doing when you are alone?
It is time to see what you may be avoiding when you are alone.
What are the feelings that surface when you are alone?
It is time to now take a deeper step within. And in your aloneness define your attachments.
Look at your relationships and ask:
Why am I in that relationship?
Why am I having that relationship?
What are the attachments I have to the outside third dimensional realm?
It is now time to get a clearer picture of you, your attachments and the life outside of you.
Why do I do what I do?
When I am giving my gifts and talents to the world, why am I doing it?
What is the purpose for giving my talents and gifts to the world?
Are there attachments here?
It is time to open your heart to you and become aware of your attachments.
It is time to cut the chords to where there are attachments. Cutting the chords in your relationships perhaps.
In the aloneness of being you, see the attachments you have in your life. Move into aloneness with you, into solitary confinement within you. For a certain amount of time each day begin to do this in meditation. Give yourself alone time, quiet time. You may notice old behaviors. You may notice that the only way you can function in life is if you continually do as opposed to be.
We come to you with this next exercise for you to be in the quietness of being alone. Move into a solitary state of beingness within yourself in the quietness of yourself. Observe what transpires.
Move into quietness with another
When you are together with another, connect with them and for a short period of time move into quietness with them. Observe what comes up when doing this. It is important to see if you can move into quietness with another and be in that quietness. Allow the flow in these moments. Observe what surfaces inside of you. What feelings surface inside of you when you are alone and quiet with another?
Many may see how uncomfortable you become. You may see yourself putting a veil or a layer between you and the other so you can feel comfortable and safe. Thus the veil and the layer separates the two of you and the noise creates cacophony and allows the separation.
With your partner be quiet for 2-5 minutes, the optimal time is 3 minutes. See what transpires when you are alone with your partner in the stillness and quietness.
Do you feel the urge to speak?
Do you feel the urge to get up and run away?
Can you be you in the quietness with another?
It is time to see your attachments with this. Observe what transpires. Write down what transpires.
At the end of the silence, connect with your partner and exchange what has transpired in the aloneness together.
Where may your mind wander?
What impulses come up when you feel another’s energy?
What you are doing is moving to a greater intimacy with yourself so you can move to a greater depth of intimacy with another by being in the moment in the silence.
Are you being you in the silence when with another?
It is time to move within the depth and breadth of you to be in the silence. First with yourself and the with your partner.
Then identify you attachments in your relationships and to the world outside of you. Examples of this is are:
Do I give to get?
Am I in this relationship because I get to avoid feelings that come up when I am alone? The mythical emptiness inside of you.
It is time to see if you are being you when you are alone. Do you fidget, wander about or do something to avoid yourself in the moment.
Do this with another and see how you may be avoiding an energetic connection with another in the silence.
What do you avoid?
What are you avoiding?
This exercise is set up so you can see what you may be avoiding in the aloneness, the quietness, the stillness.
Feelings will surface, notice them.
See if you are being yourself when you are alone.
Are you being who you are?
Who are you being when you are alone?
It is important to observe who you are being when you are alone.
And who you are being when you are out in the world with others.
This will indicate the extent the mask is still in place.
Are you you when you are alone and are you you, when out in the world with others?
When you do this exercise with your partner ask yourself this question,
Am I being me when I am with this person?
Does my mask raise just a little bit?
Observe who you are being when you are alone in the quietness and stillness and who you are being when you are with others. Is it different?
It is most important to raise your consciousness and awareness to yourself in the beingness of self, in the beingness of you.
IDENTIFY AND RELEASE YOUR ATTACHMENTS
SUMMARY OF TEACHING
BY ARCHANGEL MICHAEL
CHANNELED BY JEFF FASANO, JUNE 24, 2014
IT IS NOW TIME TO LOOK OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF TO SEE AND DEFINE YOUR ATTACHMENTS—HOW THEY AFFECT YOUR LIFE, HOW THEY ARE CREATING YOUR LIFE, WHAT PART THEY PLAY IN CREATING YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.
IT IS TIME TO KNOW YOUR ATTACHMENTS BECAUSE IT IS TIME TO RELEASE YOUR ATTACHMENTS. IT IS TIME TO BECOME AWARE OF YOUR ATTACHMENTS AND TO BE HONEST WITH YOUR PARTNER WHEN Y0U WORK WITH THEM TO POINT OUT ATTACHMENTS.
IT IS TIME TO MOVE INTO ALONENESS. IN YOUR ALONENESS YOU CAN SEE AND DEFINE YOUR ATTACHMENTS. FOR EXAMPLE, YOU CAN ASK, WHY AM I IN THIS RELATIONSHIP? WHAT ATTACHMENTS DO I HAVE TO WHAT IS OUTSIDE OF MYSELF? YOU CAN THEN GET A BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF WHY YOU DO WHAT YOU DO.
IN ALONENESS YOU MAY NOTICE OLD HABITS, PATTERNS AND RITUALS. YOU MAY REALIZE THAT THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN FUNCTION IN LIFE IS TO CONTINUALLY DO AS OPPOSED TO BE AND TO IMPOSE THAT EXPECTATION AND BEHAVIOR ON OTHERS.
AN ATTACHMENT IS A FORM OF DEPENDENCY ON ANOTHER TO POSSIBLY AVOID WHAT YOU WISH TO AVOID.
EXAMPLE: I AM IN THIS RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE WHEN I AM ALONE FEELINGS OF EMPTINESS OR OTHER FEELINGS I WANT O AVOID COME UP. SO I CHOOSE TO BE IN RELATIONSHIP TO AVOID THESE FEELINGS. THAT IS THE ATTACHMENT IN THE RELATIONSHIP. THEREFORE, I AM GETTING A SENSE OF MY SELF FROM ANOTHER. I AM BECOMING DEPENDENT ON THIS SOUL BECAUSE IT GIVES ME A GREATER SENSE OF MY SELF.
WHEN YOU RELEASE AN ATTACHMENT, YOU RELEASE THAT RELATIONSHIP BEING ABOUT YOU. IT TAKES TWO IN THE RELATIONSHIP TO BRING A BALANCE INTO A RELATIONSHIP SO THAT IS MUTUALLY ACCOUNTABLE.
WHAT WE MEAN BY RELEASING IS YOU ARE RELEASING THE ENERGETIC ATTACHMENT TO THE RELATIONSHIP. ONCE YOU RELEASE THE ENERGETIC ATTACHMENT--WHICH IS AN ATTACHMENT BASED ON YOUR CONDITIONING--YOU WILL THEN BE ABLE TO SEE THE WONDERFUL SOUL FOR WHO THEY REALLY ARE AND WHAT THE RELATIONSHIP ACTUALLY IS. WITH THAT LEVEL OF TRANSPARENCY AND AUTHENTICITY COMES THE OPPORTUNITY TO CREATE AN OPEN AND HONEST RELATIONSHIP.
MANY ATTACHMENTS ARISE FROM THE WOUNDING OF THE CHILD WHO IS LOOKING TO RECEIVE THROUGH ANOTHER WHAT THEY DID NOT GET FROM MOM AND DAD. SO YOU CONSTANTLY LOOK OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF FOR WHAT YOU YEARN FOR. THAT CREATES A CONDITIONING AND AN ENTRAINMENT OF THE NERVOUS SYSTEM.
CHASING AFTER WHAT WAS LACKING CAN BECOME A HABIT TO WHICH YOU CAN BECOME ADDICTED. THE ADDICTION IS TO THE SURGE OF ENERGY THAT ARISES AND TITILLATES THE NERVOUS SYSTEM. WHEN SOMEONE ON HIS OR HER PATH COMES ALONG WHO TRIGGERS YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM, A SURGE OF ENERGY RISES TO PROPEL YOU TO CHASE AFTER THAT. YOU BECOME ADDICTED TO THE “HIT” OF THE SURGE OF THAT ENERGY.
THESE TEACHINGS ARE ABOUT DIRECTING GUIDING AND SUPPORTING YOU TO SEE YOUR ATTACHMENTS.
YOU ARE MOVING INTO SELF MASTERY WHERE YOU ARE RELEASING THE WOUNDING AROUND YOUR HEART SPACE TO LIFT YOUR RESONANCE SO YOU MAY MOVE TO A PLACE OF FULLY LOVING, HONORING AND ACCEPTING YOU. THIS PROCESS DECREASES YOUR DEFENSES (YOUR MASK). AS THIS OCCURS, YOU RELEASE HAVING TO DEFEND YOURSELF TO BE YOURSELF, SO YOU MAY MOVE INTO THE BEINGNESS AND AUTHENTICITY OF THE SELF.
YOUR MASK IS BUILT ON THE SHAME AND JUDGMENT YOU HAVE FOR YOURSELF. AS YOU RELEASE OR BREAK DOWN THE MASK TO KNOW THAT THE ESSENCE OF YOUR BEING IS LOVE, PEACE, JOY, HARMONY, COMMUNITY AND EQUALITY, YOU RAISE YOUR LEVEL OF RESONANCE AND VIBRATION. THEN YOU CAN CONNECT ON A HEART BASED LEVEL WITH OTHERS. EVERYTHING PREVIOUSLY WAS BASED ON THE MENTAL CONDITiONING OF YOUR MIND WHERE YOU WERE LIVING YOUR LIFE THROUGH YOUR DEFENSES AND THE WOUNDS OF THE CHILD. THE DEFENSE IS USED TO DEFEND THE WOUNDS OF THE CHILD.
WHEN YOU HEAL AND RELEASE THE WOUNDS OF THE CHILD, YOU MOVE INTO A MORE AUTHENTIC SELF. YOU CAN THEN CONNECT WITH OTHERS ON THAT BASIS. WHEN YOU DO THAT YOU RAISE THE LEVEL OF RESONANCE AND VIBRATION OF THE CONNECTION AND OF THE RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE FORMING. YOU CAN THEN MOVE OUT EN MASSE INTO THE WORLD AND RAISE THE LEVEL OF RESONANCE AND VIBRATION OF THE COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUSNESS.
Jeff Fasano, is a soul photographer, trance channel and author of Journey of the Awakened Heart