I DON’T LIKE YOU, BUT I LOVE YOU
By Phillip Elton Collins
ACTIVATE YOUR SOUL PLAN!
What causes us not to like someone and yet feel a deep love for him or her?
The not liking comes from experiencing the ego defenses created around the wounds within the other, fully expressed. Through also seeing these within yourself, you can accept or reject them, experiencing a liking or not. (There are many teachings available on wounds and ego defenses in chapter 16, and/or connect with www.theangelnewsnetwork.com for more tools if needed.)
The pathway to move beyond the not liking to love is seeing and knowing that the other is not his/her wounds and defenses. Then you can choose to transcend them to the higher self of unconditional love.
By establishing, through self-love, your truth, needs, and boundaries around the other’s wounds and defenses, you are able to maintain and sustain unconditional love. (For more teachings on truth, needs, and boundaries, see the website noted above.)
All of this not liking and love is simply a way we have chosen to learn to love: the reason we are here!