Excerpt from ACTIVATE YOUR SOUL PLAN!
ANGEL ANSWERS & ACTIONS
THE PURPOSE OF RELATIONSHIPS
Inspired by Archangels Gabriel, Michael,
Raphael, and Uriel
Dear Beings learning to love
self,
More and more, as a human species, you are understanding
and knowing the universal truth: the only relationship you are having
is the one with yourself, and you can only love others to the degree you love yourself.
There are many teachings within the Angel News Network (see Life Mastery, www.theangelnewsnetwork.com,
channeled materials and books) and elsewhere to support a loving relationship with
you that can then reflect and mirror out into the world around you. If you better
understand and know the meaning, value, and purpose of relationships
mirroring self, you just might increase the success of them. Then you can more
fully embrace and embody their divine purpose in your lives: to create communities
of equality, harmony, and balance.
How you feel about yourself, thus others, is taught.
You are not born not loving yourself and one another. Now you can begin a new teaching
and create a new you through the support of higher realms that love you unconditionally,
until you can fully love one another and yourselves. Then you will create a world
that reflects who you truly are: divine beings.
GROWTH AND EXPANSION
As you learn more about yourself through your wounds
and ego defenses, you become more conscious and your original wounding can begin
to heal. Through personal processes you can learn more about how your chosen
maturation-family situations created unmet needs. Through the “ownership” of the choices you
made, you can become responsible for what it is you chose to learn and how you chose
to learn it. This moves you from victimhood to self-empowerment. You begin
to know that life is a process of inside out, not outside in. You
realize the other person is not there to fulfill what you can yourself. This prevents
codependency.
You begin to know that the purpose of each
relationship you are having is for your own growth and expansion, reflecting what
is happening throughout the universe. For the universe would
be incomplete without each and every one of you.
SEEING THE ILLUSIONS OF RELATIONSHIPS
You have so many illusions, and sometimes delusions,
associated with your teachings around relationships. In fact, there is very little
truth within your concepts and ideas of what relationships truly are. Through the
taught shaming, blaming, and judging of self, you do the same to others.
One of the first truths to integrate is that your parents
are responsible for your well-being. They are here to nurture first so you may
learn what you came here to learn. Often your parents focus on what you are
not, thus creating the shaming and blaming that you need to release (the reason
you chose it). When a parent or someone else says, “I must change you,” you have
a choice to take responsibility for yourself and see the parent as the needed mirror.
Isn’t it fascinating how the universe works and how you choose to learn? If you
so choose, you learn that no one else is here to make you feel whole and safe. That
is your responsibility, and when you do not assume it, you experience the consequence
of that choice. When you’ve had enough consequences, you make another choice.
SPEAK YOUR TRUTH, NEEDS, AND BOUNDARIES
In order to know your truth, it is essential to know
who you are and why you are here, two questions that you seldom ask yourselves or
are asked by others. The “who” and the “why” in your lives defines your purpose.
Your purpose is fueled by your passion, how you feel and resonate. From higher realms
there are many teachings at present to assist humanity through a personal process
of determining who you are and why you are here, if you need assistance. (See Life
Mastery, www.theangelnewsnetwork.com.)
It is not unusual for many of you not to know your needs, or for them to get lost
within the needs of others. How often have others asked you, “What do you need?”
When was the last time a needy child asked his/her parents if they needed anything?
It is important to know you have real needs, for if your needs are not satisfied,
it reduces your ability to support others.
It sounds simple, but the best way to satisfy your needs
is to know them and communicate them to others.
Communicate your needs as a preference, not as a command
or demand, which can create resistance to them. Be conscious of the negative egos,
and attempt not to use manipulation as a way to get what you want, not what you
need. This is a substitute for unmet needs.
Your boundaries allow the best use of your energy and
what serves your highest good. Always ask yourselves these two questions in setting
your boundaries: “Is this the best use of my energy, and is this serving my highest
good?” Take a deep breath and go into your knowing heart for the response. Your
resonance and discernment will assist greatly in establishing boundaries. Like needs,
many of us don’t know we can have boundaries.
NEEDS OF THE OTHER
Many do not realize that a relationship is a wonderful
opportunity to provide the needs of the other person—be it wife, husband, lover,
brother, sister, mother, father, or pet. It’s about the universal law of balancing
giving and receiving (which can be a challenge). If giving without the need to get
and receiving without the need to give are organically achieved, these can become
a great opportunity to learn giving and receiving. When the other’s needs become
as important as your own, this will be a strong non-codependent relationship. When
you express your needs freely, and give without thought of self, a process of healing
inner wounds and ego defenses also is achieved through the positive energy exchanged.
VALUE TALENTS AND GIFTS EQUALLY
Each person has unique talents and gifts to offer the
world. In fact, the universe would be incomplete without all these. There are many
personal processes to assist others in knowing their talents and gifts, if they
are not presently aware of them (see Life Mastery, www.theangelnewsnetwork.com).
Bring these out into world service reflecting your self-love and value of the other
person; know these are fragments of both of your divine soul plans. Give equally,
more than you expect to receive, and see what happens. When you have gratitude for
what you do receive, true abundance comes.
PERSONAL GROWTH AND EXPANSION
When you realize all relationships are for your own personal
growth and expansion, your consciousness shifts greatly. Through your ownership
of the relationships you bring into your lives (with truth, needs, and boundaries),
everyone becomes a reflection or mirror of yourself. You abandon victimhood for
self-empowerment. You can regain the forgotten aspects of self and expand more into
who you are and why you are here: activating your soul plan. Through this awareness,
you can begin to relate to everyone and eliminate duality, separation, and confrontation
(which are so active in the world today).
IN CONCLUSION
These tools are presented to assist you in
freeing yourselves from yourselves in order to create a world of equality, harmony,
and balance during the next golden age.
************************************************************************
*The poems in this book are all from Sacred Poetry & Mystical Messages by Phillip Elton Collins.
WE ARE ONE
As soon as we can realize
We’re a collection of soul connections
Then duality and separation
Will be simply sent, away…
We shall know we are surely
One old soul
Who has never really
Been sold into separation.
The vicious veil of separation
Is finally to be lifted.
We’re being released,
From duality,
That never had any reality.
We are One Divine Soul,
Old in our role,
Of consciousness and love.
Every creation molecule,
Knows it’s all been a silly ridicule,
Until now.
No comments:
Post a Comment